Nov 18What is Really Happening In T/Here?This question — versions of it — have been proving valuable in my life. I ask myself, “What is really going on, here, inside me?” I ask others, including you, “What is happening with you right now, inside, truly?” Questions like this are gateways to authentic and honest relating, if…Intimacy3 min readIntimacy3 min read
Aug 20A New Cult for ChildhoodWhat is it like to have been raised in a Cult? Yes, I am asking you. You weren’t raised in a cult? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? A cult is a place where unless you hand over your life and/or your money, you are excluded. Where unless you tow the line…Culture4 min readCulture4 min read
Jul 26Becoming an Un-Resentful PersonBecoming an Un-Resentful Person I hold space for several different people every week, and watch recorded Emotional Healing Processes, and from time to time different patterns seem to emerge across the week. This week the theme was resentment. One person has been wrangling their resentment for months and months, and…Resentment5 min readResentment5 min read
Jul 16Gold About MoneyIt may not be what you’d think. I have claimed to be ‘The Richest Poor Person I Ever Knew’ for many of my 52 years. It was been a claim I was proud to make. Until recently. Recently I discovered that I hate this identity. More accurately, I discovered that…Money3 min readMoney3 min read
Jul 15Nothing WrongYesterday morning was remarkable to me because of how it went: As usual, I surfaced slowly. When I caught that I was awake, I went on track about recalling what I could of my night time dreams. Somehow, doing this gives me ecstasy. I can’t tell why. Maybe it’s the…Possibility Management5 min readPossibility Management5 min read
Jul 9What Does It Mean to BE MEa Question from a 15 Day Experiment of Time Without Spaces to Be Loud and Messy. “When I was about 5–6 years old, I started to take on a persona so I would be accepted, but it was not authentic to me.” A participant who came to a work talk…Possibility Management6 min readPossibility Management6 min read
Jun 19How My Mum Finally Became Interested in My Workconfessions — and discoveries — of a recovering rage-aholic “I understand better what your work is now. You used to just be so ANGRY, I couldn’t see it.” So said my mother recently. After years of not chosing to look at my website, follow me on Medium nor Patreon nor…4 min read4 min read
Mar 5For Love of EarthAn Open Letter to Authentic Adult Leaders, Next Culture Experimenters, Edge Workers of Team Gaia In countries around the world, vaccine mandates are dividing families, friendships, communities as people continue to take positions for and against them. On one side, solidarity against a virus that strikes down the vulnerableis emphasized…Covid 197 min readCovid 197 min read
Mar 4Parenting as an UnInitiated Adult is HellWhile I celebrate the many profound and magical experiences inherent to watching human life emerge, I take a stand for accuracy about how parenting goes in Modern Culture. I take a further stand for how it can go — in Next Culture. I am aware that most of my readers…Parenting3 min readParenting3 min read
Feb 22Low Drama is Not LifeAs I continue to use the Distinctions, Maps, Tools and Processes of Possibility Management to heal things and to handle things, I am gaining more distinction as to the energetic quality of being in Low Drama as distant from High Drama. I can be in Low Drama about anything. The…Possibility Management4 min readPossibility Management4 min read
