Jun 19How My Mum Finally Became Interested in My Workconfessions — and discoveries — of a recovering rage-aholic “I understand better what your work is now. You used to just be so ANGRY, I couldn’t see it.” So said my mother recently. After years of not chosing to look at my website, follow me on Medium nor Patreon nor…4 min read
Mar 5For Love of EarthAn Open Letter to Authentic Adult Leaders, Next Culture Experimenters, Edge Workers of Team Gaia In countries around the world, vaccine mandates are dividing families, friendships, communities as people continue to take positions for and against them. On one side, solidarity against a virus that strikes down the vulnerableis emphasized…Covid 197 min read
Mar 4Parenting as an UnInitiated Adult is HellWhile I celebrate the many profound and magical experiences inherent to watching human life emerge, I take a stand for accuracy about how parenting goes in Modern Culture. I take a further stand for how it can go — in Next Culture. I am aware that most of my readers…Parenting3 min read
Feb 22Low Drama is Not LifeAs I continue to use the Distinctions, Maps, Tools and Processes of Possibility Management to heal things and to handle things, I am gaining more distinction as to the energetic quality of being in Low Drama as distant from High Drama. I can be in Low Drama about anything. The…Possibility Management4 min read
Feb 6Alive Without DoubtWhen I heard about the experiment, to “live two years without doubt,” my Box freaked out. How could it even be possible, to live without doubting? My story about myself is that I am riddled with doubt, and that this is not something I consciously choose, so how can I…Possibility Management6 min read
Jan 26What People Feel About Grief is Adversely Determining Our WorldYou might feel differently about grief depending on when it is happening in yourself, and/or in others. It wouldn’t surprise me if you felt scared or sad about grief, no matter who feels it. How people feel about grief is adversely affecting our world. I Feel Scared About My Grief …Grief7 min read
Dec 30, 2021On the Tricky Matter of Choice in HealingFinding people who can hold space for authentic healing, and figuring out how to gain access to them, while you are living with patterns that need healing in the first place can be hard, that’s a fact. Spaces that are more readily available can (in my experience) more often than…Healing From Trauma3 min read
Nov 23, 2021Needing vs What It Takes: Insights from Experimenting with Extraordinary PartnershipI have learned a lot about what it takes to create extraordinary, evolutionary partnership from inadvertently doing what prevents it from happening. My 11 year marriage ended in a train wreck of chilling proportions. As I lay metaphorically bleeding in the aftermath, I vowed that I would make sure to…8 min read
Nov 12, 2021Facing~In To New Experiments About 5 Body Intimacy and PartnershipI have in my life done many unconscious experiments about intimacy and partnership. From the ages of 14 to 21, I was rarely “without a boyfriend” for more than a few weeks. It may come as no surprise that by 20 I was, without planning, a mother. I became a…Relationships6 min read
Sep 11, 2021Regenerating HumanityI have worked and played with and in many different forms of on-purpose, intentional communities; permaculture projects, urban and rural, activist groups from anti-nuke to anti-climate collapse, parents who birth at home and unschool, civic change collectives, groups of peers working to heal early childhood trauma, mishmashes of genius misfits…5 min read
